Reclaiming identity after narcissistic abuse


The Healing Ikigai

Inspired by the wisdom of the Ikigai model, at MomentousRise, I created ‘The Healing Ikigai’ a survivor-centered version for those reclaiming identity after narcissistic abuse. It’s not about going back to who you were… it’s about growing into who you were always meant to be. Healing, purpose, and peace can coexist. This framework helps you find them.

Traditional Ikigai helps identify one’s purpose by exploring:

For survivors of narcissistic abuse, these questions can be reframed to focus on healing:

What brings you peace?
Activities or environments where you feel safe and calm.

What helps you heal?
Practices, tools or support systems that support your recovery journey

What reconnects you to your true self?
Passions or hobbies that make you feel authentic and alive

What allows you to support yourself sustainably?
Work or pursuits that align with your well-being and values

At the intersection of these elements lies your Healing Ikigai, a personalized path to rediscovering joy, purpose, and self-worth

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